We always say that our patient community is filled with extraordinary people doing extraordinary things! Well, we are honored to introduce you to Alana! Alana turned to social media for support while embarking on her fertility journey and found an online community that embraced her and has been lifting her up ever since. Not only has she found support, but Alana has also been documenting her journey and those raw feelings and emotions that often come with the treatment process. In her own words below, Alana shares some things she has learned along the way along with the reminder that you are not alone.
“I’ve poured my heart out to nearly complete strangers in Instagram direct messages and I’ve received happy mail from some of the greatest women I’ve never even met. This community holds on to hope for me when I don’t see the hope for myself and I love returning that favor for my TTC sisters.”
The road by which so many travel to become a family can be a really lonely one. I firmly believe though that it only has to be lonely if you let it. When you’re first thrust into this world it can be paralyzing to say the least. It can feel isolating. It can create fights between partners. It can stop you from bringing your full self to work. It can impact your outlook on the world. That’s why it is so important to build your Fertility Tribe and pack your Virtual MyVitro caddy full of all the right tools.
Alana and her husband, John. Currently waiting and wishing to add a 3rd member to their family, Alana appropriately named her Instagram account @waiting_for_three
Alana started connecting with others through social media and notes that she has called on her Fertility Tribe countless times.
When I first stumbled upon this community it was out of sheer desperation. I googled “best podcasts for infertility” and I listened to an interview with Blair Nelson at FabFertility and silently hit “Follow” on IG. I watched and watched and finally bought a ticket to a virtual Infertility Conference for patients – Fertility Rally Live.
Through miscarriage, IUIs, OB Triage visits, Covid and now IVF – I’ve called on my Fertility Tribe countless times. I’ve laughed through podcasts that both my husband and I enjoy. I’ve poured my heart out to nearly complete strangers in Instagram direct messages and I’ve received happy mail from some of the greatest women I’ve never even met. This community holds on to hope for me when I don’t see the hope for myself and I love returning that favor for my TTC sisters. They demonstrate hope for the future by living the dream I have when they share the birth of their rainbow. They silently get pumped for a transfer because I’m waiting for the other shoe to drop. They breathe fire into my soul.
The magical part I find at RADfertility too is that the community doesn’t stop when I exit my virtual community and step through the door at the clinic – the receptionists have my back when I’m literally going to pee myself before a Mock Transfer. The clinicians have delayed patients to talk me through heart wrenching decisions that OB Triage wasn’t quite prepared to do. The clinical staff at RADfertility is like none other that I’ve ever experienced. I’ve been treated by each of RADfertility’s doctors all with their own quirks but the same underlying, burning desire to make me a mom. I feel blessed to be a patient at a clinic that makes the community something beyond virtual social media walls.
Lastly – I wish that more people would find a good Infertility Therapist. This community is a beautiful thing but it does not make up for professional individualized mental care. You lose so much on this journey and you can truly keep that in check with the help of the right mental health professional.
Alana often shares big updates and where she stands on her journey on a “Rainbow Letter Board”.
She documents it all and is always connecting with others going through the highs and lows of the fertility journey.
“A nurse at my clinic referred to IVF like the premium photo package and I still really love that analogy – you pay way too much money to get that 1 8×10 and end up with 60 wallets you don’t want. There are a couple of cool added bonuses though, photos of your follicles, photos of embryos, early monitoring, and early ultrasounds.” – Alana
“Mother of Embryos” – A fun Game of Thrones reference on Alana’s shirt. She is always prepared with spirited gear for every step of her journey!
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"I feel so lucky to have found RADfertility. I tried two other clinics before I expanded my search and found RADfertility. I drive an hour each way to go to them but I don’t regret a thing. They are so caring and so professional. Every time I message them they respond quickly. Every time I see them they have a friendly smile and warm welcome. They explain everything so well and I never feel lost in the process as I did elsewhere. They also took the time to figure out what was wrong. Other clinics threw up their hands, said 'I don’t know' and pushed me to try IVF."
"Dr. Feinberg and the entire staff at RADfertility are absolutely amazing. The receptionists, coordinators, nurses, and lab staff are compassionate, caring, and straight forward. I’ve had a 12-year infertility journey and I’ve tried other clinics but RADfertility was the only one I felt at ease with. They answered any questions that I had and were there any time I needed them. My coordinator, Amy, was the absolute best and always had my back. Dr. Feinberg’s dedication to his patients is incredible. You are not just a number there, you are a person with individualized needs and care."
"My journey with RADfertility and Dr. McGuirk started when my husband and I were trying to conceive and were having difficulty. We went to RADfertility, where we met Dr. McGuirk. I always say she changed my life and 'fixed' me. Dr. McGuirk is always learning more about endometriosis and how to help her patients. She’s brilliant and truly cares for you! I’m eternally grateful to her and everyone at RADfertility for their unwavering support, love, and care."
"Every step of our journey was tailored to us. We were treated so respectfully. Every detail was clearly explained and we felt so comfortable. Rhonda Wright was a Godsend and inspiring. I highly recommend this place! I cried when my weekly appointments were done and I 'graduated.'"
"The day I met Dr. Neithardt I knew she was the perfect doctor for me. Dr. Neithardt was so compassionate every step of the way. She held my hand, she hugged away tears, and continued to give me hope. There are not enough 'thank you's' in the world for Dr. Neithardt and the whole RADfertility team who will forever have a special place in my heart."
"RADfertility's staff has heart and provided me with exceptional health care. I knew I was in good hands and felt like we were in this together. The doctors and nursing staff always answered all of my questions and provided thorough information about all of my options. I am so fortunate and appreciative of the care that I received at RADfertility. They go above and beyond."
"I cannot begin to explain how wonderful RADfertility is. We were frustrated with trying to start a family and it not working for us. The entire team of doctors and nurses made us feel comfortable and hopeful that we would be parents. We experienced so many ups and downs but we never felt like we were on our IVF journey alone, we had our RADfertility team every step of the way. If you're looking for a supportive team on the IVF journey, look no further. RADfertility is the absolute best."
"Dr. Schillings always kept us informed and never gave up on us. She always explained our options and risks with each procedure. She called us personally when there were any issues or sensitive subjects to cover. Dr. Schillings was the first doctor that had answers for us and wanted to help us have our miracle baby!"
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